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“I can’t believe this!” often exclaimed by many when something unexpected unfolding in your life. “Why is this happening to me?”, “What did I do to deserve this?”, or even “Oh, My God!” moments were always there without you realising. It is spontaneous, agitated, frustrated, unexpected, disbelieving when something bad happened to us.

Sounds familiar?

Believe it or not, call it “The Law of Attraction”! It has got thousands of reasons linking to your belief system.

Your belief system is a system or a program that you have downloaded into your head when you were younger and it becomes part of how you operate in life. It is our foundation of life. Your life experiences will further confirm those beliefs and keep you in your comfort zone. For example, if your parents told you wen you were young that making money is hard, unconsciously even you put in effort, you will confirm and believe that making money is really hard. Aha! Self-fulling prophecy! Similarly, if you are person who is very beautiful, you think finding someone who loves such a beautiful person like yourself is very high maintenance, and you will never find true love. Guess what? You will never do, because you have already set that in your programming system, i.e. your brain/ mind that pathetic message.

Just like a GPS, once you have set the course, let say from Mid Valley to shopping mall to KLCC Petronas Twin Towers, you will get to KLCC no matter what by diligently following that set GPS, and you will not end up in Kuala Lumpur Police Headquarters.

What and how you choose determines your outcome.

That is why you will notice, when you choose to hang out with people who are positively driven, even though you are not one, eventually you will draw to that positive energy. Similarly, if you are always attracted to gossips about others, you tend to be sucked into a whirlpool of negative influences, even without you realising. The choice you made today determines your future.